[42 Cookies] Keep Yourself in Mind

I have participated in the cosplay community scene about 2005. Being popular in the community was always an underline want for any cosplayer. What kind of fame, differed from person to person. If you post a profile of yourself on any cosplay community, you are seeking some sort of acknowledgment from someone, weather its just for finding fellow crafting cosplayers, fellow fans from a series/show from what your cosplaying from or just seeking attention after getting nothing from the real world.  Because of how technology is growing and how much easier it is to be on the web and how many easy social media's there are far more people who are grasping onto cosplaying because it can acquire fame very quickly but quick fame has very nasty back lash.  Before I go farther, I don't want to disuse about "so- and-so", or "look at my views/repost/retweet" or "hey, guess who I am going to do/or have a photoshot with?".

What I would like you to do is just stand back.

And understand one thing the cosplay community doesn't want, rudeness. Please stand back and look at what you are doing in the community. If you are simply trying to get to the top, understand you have to have someone to stand on. Some of these people don't mind and you aren't going to have to be rude, snotty, or selfish for someone to reach out and help you out. But when you are rude, snotty and ignorant about others, if you ever get out of your own selfishness and look around you, you will soon find people aren't going to be there. And there is no reason for them to be there.

I wish I knew a way way to stop the bulling, the trolls, the flamers, the stalkers and just the shit that is coming to the community from the outside and from the inside. But there isn't really a simple answer.

Be realize at the end of the day, the greatest cosplay you can dawn, 

is being yourself.

[42 cookie] Is it warm now?

The weather final turned warm where I'm at and I'm so happy. 

This weather totally gets me into summer. wait, it is summer now!? YAH!!

This brings me to summer plans and ideas. Its been on the brain all may but its time now to place that plans into action. How many times do we make summer plans and get nothing on the plan list done? Or am I the only one who never gets my summer plans off the ground. Well, I am a dreamer so I tend to dream the days away and never get the work done. Bad me. But I might as well make a list and see if I can get anything on my list done.

Summer actives usally are these...

Reading books and then writing my own stories.

Going to parks; local, national or amusement.

If not that, enjoying a green yard and drawing.

Summer Movies.

So this week I am going to make it summer plans week. 

Times a wasting.

[42 cookies] a pause

So I am already a day late on my 'Thursday' blog day but I was out of town last week and this week had family in town. I have several goodies and fun stuff to blog about, recent magazines, pretty new shoes, a fun photo shoot and still need to scan my Disney art. I want to. Give attention to all these things. Also might make a donation t.i.p.  jar because funds are scares for me to counting my fashion blog. No one is made of money and I don't like it myself. More into trades of skills. But let hope I can make something for etsy and that can help keep this blog going. I hope everyone finds some joy in the up coming weekend. I should have a new blog post on Monday.

As the weekenders say,

Later days.

[42 Cookies] Sub-heading Knowedge

You will notice that I have subject titles with certain heading. Here is a little cheat code on what the sub-heading titles mean.

[Frills and Grace] Post with this in the heading are usally about the lolita, gal, cute etc. fashion that I'm in. I don't want to call it lolita for many reasons. Even if I'm refuring to the fashion, lolita also has some other conosastions. Also, I'm not stickly lolita, I like much of the Kawaii/Cute fashion style of japan. But its also influnaced greatly that I live in the US and have a different figure to dress. So I like to call my own fashion, Frills and Grace

[By The Window] Post with this heading with talk about entertainment stuff. Like, movies, books, and games. Why the title. Well I always imaged having a window set that I sit in when I'm chilling reading a book. Or if I am looking out the window, I looking usually at someone else adventures. What a movie is. Someday I'll do a drawing and then you will understand.

[42 Cookies] Post inclides to talk about life in general. yes, the number refures to hitchhickers guild to the galaxy.
    "There is a theory which states that if ever anyone discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory, which states that this has already happened."

More sub subjects to come.